Survival Of The ... Nicest? Check Out The Other Theory Of Evolution

1 week Ago

A new theory of human origins says cooperation—not competition—is instinctive.

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Public Religion In A Post-Christian Age, Graduation Edition

1 week Ago

It’s graduation season, and as such a golden opportunity to observe the various ways religion is handled in American public life circa 2013.

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My Virginity Mistake

2 weeks Ago

I took an abstinence pledge hoping it would ensure a strong marriage. Instead, it led to a quick divorce.

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Mother Theresa's Masochism: Does Religion Demand Suffering To Keep People Passive?

2 weeks Ago

Passive acceptance or even glorification of suffering can be adaptive when people have no choice. But why does so much religion -- particularly Catholicism -- fetishize pain?

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Men May Not Understand Women After All

3 weeks Ago

A new study reveals that men have trouble reading female facial expressions.

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Could Our Deepest Fears Hold The Key To Ending Violence?

3 weeks Ago

Feelings of fear and powerlessness are driving the cycle of violence that surrounds us. To change that, we need to recognize that we need each other to thrive as individuals.

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No Room For Non-Theists At Boston Interfaith Service

3 weeks Ago

“We were blown off.”

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Why Atheists Should Fight For Establishment Of State Religion

5 weeks Ago

Or, how to win a culture war—a modest proposal.

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Georgia High School Students Fight To End Segregated Prom

6 weeks Ago

Wilcox County High School has two proms: one for white students and one for non-white students.

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What Difference Will Same-Sex Marriage Make?

7 weeks Ago

As the Supreme Court prepared to hear challenges to the Defense of Marriage Act and to Proposition 8, the substance of their eventual judgment seems less and less relevant.

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Have Militant Atheists Created A New Religion?

7 weeks Ago

There is danger in dogma, whoever is behind it.

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For Thriving Public Spaces, Just Add Seating

8 weeks Ago

Could it be as simple as that? Author Jonathan Rowe thought so, and tried it out in his own hometown.

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Research On The Politics Of Meditation Points To Deeper Truths

8 weeks Ago

Psychologists recently conducted a study that found that meditation may make you more liberal, at least in the short-term. Richard Schiffman argues that the politics of true spirituality are more about balance than support for any one side.

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The Papal Prayer Machine

8 weeks Ago

Do Twitter devotions change the meaning of prayer?

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What The $15 Billion Sex Toy Industry Tells Us About Sexuality Today

10 weeks Ago

America is in the midst of another sexual revolution.

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Christians Protest Yoga In Schools -- But Welcome Bible Study

11 weeks Ago

Whether yoga is religious is a less important question than whether we really have separation of church and state in the public schools.

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The Case For Closing Liquor Stores

11 weeks Ago

Violent crime has intractable causes like poverty, drugs and guns. But one cause -- the number of businesses selling booze in a neighborhood -- could be directly controlled. Should it be?

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When Prostitution Wasn't A Crime: The Fascinating History Of Sex Work In America

12 weeks Ago

From the Louisiana colony to the California Gold Rush, prostitutes were some of the first women in early American settlements.

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How Our Machine-Based Way Of Life Is Not Only Destroying Nature, It Is Also Destroying Us

12 weeks Ago

In a society with little time for rest, our sense of self is identified with anxiety and accomplishment instead of our true being.

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What Would It Look Like If Red States Actually Seceded?

13 weeks Ago

Our interconnected world makes an amicable divorce a bit more complicated than just breaking up the states.

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Inside The Military Rape Cult

13 weeks Ago

On One Billion Rising, a day to stop rape and violence against women, Sabrina Rubin Erdely discusses her Rolling Stone report on a tragic tale of sexual assault in the military.

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Trouble In Creationist Paradise

13 weeks Ago

Happy Darwin Day! Celebrate and be condemned to eternal damnation.

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What’s A “first Time,” Anyway?

14 weeks Ago

A study on virginity loss raises questions about how we define sex -- so we talk to people about their "first".

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Cooperatives And Community Work Are Part Of American DNA

15 weeks Ago

How economic democracy has been in constant battle with concentrated-wealth-based capitalism, which is threatened by a more equal distribution of wealth.

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What We Don’t Want To Know About Chicken And Fish

15 weeks Ago

Chicken and fish are often considered sort-of-not-really meat. You hear this a lot: “I don’t eat meat, but I eat chicken and fish.” Because they’re not mammals, the idea is, they’re not really animals.

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The Myth Of Human Progress

16 weeks Ago

The technical and scientific forces that created a life of unparalleled luxury—as well as unrivaled military and economic power—for the industrial elites are the forces that now doom us.

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What Makes A Human Bomb Tick?

17 weeks Ago

What really drives suicide bombers, rampage shooters, and other self-destructive killers?

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Activists Set Stage For New Battles Over Abortion Laws

18 weeks Ago

The Virginia’s General Assembly's served notice that 2013 may offer a repeat of last year's high-profile fights on abortion rights that are still fresh in the memories of legislature observers.

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The Secret Sex Lives Of Christian Women

18 weeks Ago

There’s something sexual about the way that some churches present the idea of God to young Christians, particularly women.

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Alcohol: Social Lubricant For 10,000 Years

19 weeks Ago

Several new archaeological finds suggest that alcohol has been a social glue in parties, from work festivals to cultic feasts, since the dawn of civilization.

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6 Biggest Religious Right Threats To America

19 weeks Ago

With many legislatures tilting right and "prayer" caucuses on the prowl, Church-State separation may be in trouble in the coming year.

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Why Do We Have The Second Amendment?

20 weeks Ago

Why did the Founding Fathers believe so strongly about gun ownership that they included it within the Bill of Rights, which guarantees the freedoms of every American against tyranny?

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Everything Was Better When We Had God In Our Schools

21 weeks Ago

Really?

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This Christmas, Let's Remember, Jesus Was A Palestinian

21 weeks Ago

2012 was another human rights disaster for the Arabs in Palestine.

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Queer Today, Gone Tomorrow

22 weeks Ago

The Mormon case for gay marriage.

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10 Best Countries To Be Born In 2013 (Hint: America Isn't One Of Them)

22 weeks Ago

A new quality-of-life index shows that when it comes to the best place to be born in 2013, the US is way behind.

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How I Survived Breaking Up With My Car

22 weeks Ago

Erin McCoy tells the story of how she gave up driving, despite her love for cars, and examines the challenges facing drivers who don't live in cities.

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Did The Dalai Lama Just Call For An End To Religion?

23 weeks Ago

Not exactly - but it is easy to sympathize with the Dalai Lama’s frustration. After millennia of being preached at by priests and prophets, humanity is still addicted to war; we continue to lay waste to the planet’s fragile ecosystem; we torture animals, repress ethnic minorities, and ignore the plight of the poor.

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Photo Essay: When A Kid's Bedroom Isn't A Room

24 weeks Ago

A striking look at where children from nine countries sleep at night.

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My Sweet Threesome

24 weeks Ago

Sex was emotionally loaded territory for me. Until I found freedom in the arms of a couple.

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Capitalism’s Grossest Win: The Final Triumph Of Black Friday

25 weeks Ago

From Plymouth Rock to Thanksgiving at Best Buy: The Puritan ethic went spectacularly astray, all for an iPad mini.

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Explain Away The Gay

26 weeks Ago

Opponents of same-sex marriage went 0-for-4 in the election. But they have lots of excuses.

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Casual Sex Rules

26 weeks Ago

As a society, we’re beginning to explore our definition of relationships beyond the traditional be-all-and-end-all of marriage and monogamy and opening the doors for new kinds of coupling.

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Widespread Use Of Plea Bargains Plays Major Role In Mass Incarceration

27 weeks Ago

There are many people falsely accused of crimes doing time in for-profit American gulags, and many more waiting to replace them. This situation might be good for the for-profit prison system and a few major stockholders but it spells Dante's Inferno for those forced to take the plea.

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Watch Mitt Romney Explain How Jesus Will Reign For 1,000 Years When He Returns, In Jerusalem... And Missouri

28 weeks Ago

Video emerges of Romney citing the thinking of a wildly fringe conspiracy theorist and his belief in the strange intricacies of the Mormon faith. (Yikes! - B)

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The Hazards Of Manhood

28 weeks Ago

Am I man enough? Am I powerful enough? Men put their bodies at risk to cover up pain, fear, and vulnerability.

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Rape And Richard Mourdock’s Semi-Omnipotent God

28 weeks Ago

Follow the Republican candidate's theology and maybe God’s against Viagra, too.

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Most U.S. Catholics Back Marriage Equality, But Knights Of Columbus Pour Millions Into Opposition

29 weeks Ago

The Knights of Columbus still support immigrants’ rights, but those sober-faced men marching down Main Street in full parade regalia are also part of an organization that was the single largest donor in support of California’s Proposition 8.

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The Real Reason For “Vagina-gate”

29 weeks Ago

Has the Southern Baptist Convention misplaced Its binders full of women?

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We’re The Face Of Food Stamps

30 weeks Ago

When my husband lost his job, we landed in the 47 percent -- and learned how cruel other people's judgment can be.

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Boobs Are Great -- Now, Can We All Stop Freaking Out Any Time They're Exposed?

30 weeks Ago

Why do we continue to stigmatize the female body?

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Atheism’s Growing Pains

31 weeks Ago

As the atheist movement matures and becomes more politically engaged, deep divisions are emerging -- that's not necessarily a bad thing.

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Saving Teens from Obama: When Bible Study Goes Wrong

31 weeks Ago

Or, why is the Salvation Army church showing political propaganda to my kid?

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Profits Of Zion

32 weeks Ago

How money has shaped Mormon culture.

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I Hope My Dogs Die Soon

32 weeks Ago

My pets have long been the center of my world. As my two pugs struggle, I wonder: How much longer can this go on?

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Are Muslims Nuts?

33 weeks Ago

Probably as many Middle Easterners wonder, ‘why do they hate us?’ as we have wondered of them.

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Eastern Philosophy Eases Death Anxiety

33 weeks Ago

New research finds East Asians are more likely than Westerners to react to reminders of their mortality with a renewed commitment to enjoy life.

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I Married A Republican

34 weeks Ago

My husband and I have always had political conflict. But as this election nears, things are getting ugly.

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Right-Wing Religions Of The World Unite To Oppress Women And Gays More Ruthlessly

34 weeks Ago

Religions that were once infamous for their mutual hatred are joining forces in a bid to preserve their shrinking spheres of privilege.

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Will Pennsylvania Execute A Man Who Killed His Abusers?

35 weeks Ago

When a Pennsylvania jury sentenced Terrance Williams with the death penalty, they didn't know he had suffered years of violent sexual abuse at the hands of his victim.

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Jesus Would Back Gay Marriage

35 weeks Ago

I'm an Anglican bishop and know what the Bible says about marriage. It has nothing to do with one man, one woman.

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A New Battleground In 'Right To Die' Debate

35 weeks Ago

“Right-to-die” advocates have mounted a high-profile initiative campaign in what might seem to be unlikely territory: heavily Catholic Massachusetts.

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Is Prayer Selfish?

35 weeks Ago

Asking God to stack the odds in our favor is asking him to stack them against someone else.

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Men Defining Rape: A History

36 weeks Ago

Men have been in the business of deciding when it is okay and when it is not okay to rape women for thousands of years.

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What Americans Really Think About Abortion

36 weeks Ago

According to polling data, Americans are split fairly evenly on whether or not they think abortion should be legal, but the opinions hover in a much more gray area than is usually seen in politicians' chatter.

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Imagine You Were Raped. Got Pregnant. Then Your Rapist Sought Custody

38 weeks Ago

It happens—and in many states there are no laws to keep rapists from terrorizing their victims all over again. Read on, Todd Akin.

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A Fascinating History Of The "C Word"

38 weeks Ago

How a word meant to signify female pleasure was turned against women and into something evil, fearful, unspoken.

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It Has Come To This -- Close-To-Death Cash-Strapped Americans Selling Their Life Insurance Policies

39 weeks Ago

We have such an eroded public safety net that folks are reduced to selling their life insurance policies for the sake of paying their medical bills.

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Does Mormonism Encourage LDS People To Lie?

39 weeks Ago

Lying for the Lord?

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America’s Deficit Attention Disorder

39 weeks Ago

Money is the least of our problems. It’s time to pay attention to the real deficits that are killing us.

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Christian Publishing v. The Vagina

40 weeks Ago

Authors and editors jump through hoops to accommodate gatekeepers like Lifeway.

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Louisiana Charter School Kicks Pregnant Students Out Of Class

40 weeks Ago

Delhi Charter School’s policy manual states that the school has the right to require any female student to take a pregnancy test if teachers or administrators suspect they are pregnant. Those who test positive or refuse to take the test are prohibited from attending classes on campus.

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Texas To Execute Mentally Disabled Prisoner On Tuesday

40 weeks Ago

A death row prisoner who has been medically diagnosed as “mentally retarded” and therefore exempt from execution is set to die on Tuesday in Texas, a state that rejects scientific consensus and instead applies its own definition of learning difficulties based on a character in a John Steinbeck novel.

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The Rise And Fall Of Sexual Promiscuity

41 weeks Ago

Sleeping around once had its benefits, but turns out women may have given up better fertility for better security. (This is obviously a step backwards. –B)

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Neither The Joker Nor Godlessness Drove Batman Shooting

41 weeks Ago

Moral relativism can be held by those who have a detailed and rich personal story, and most who have no such story do not commit heinous crimes.

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Bush And His Open Heart

42 weeks Ago

This is a moment for all Americans to be proud of the single best thing George W. Bush did as president: launching an initiative to combat AIDS in Africa that has saved millions of lives.

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I Want To Be Sexy ... Just Like Mommy

42 weeks Ago

Media has only some part to play in the early sexualization of girls — a new study indicates their mothers play a vital role too.

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The Great Resurgence Of Public Spaces

43 weeks Ago

Here's why we need parks, streetlife, squares, markets, trails, community gardens and other hang outs more than ever.

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Note To Media: Despite Horror, Americans Are Safer

43 weeks Ago

Most of us live in a far safer place than our parents.

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Pledging Virginity To Dad

43 weeks Ago

Exploring the world of ‘Purity Balls’.

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Now That The Weather Is Going Crazy, Americans Believe In Climate Change Again

44 weeks Ago

Before the financial crisis hit, Americans were pretty sure that the globe was warming, and that humans were causing it, and that it was kind of a big deal. As the economy slumped, Americans decided that climate change wasn’t actually happening—and even if it was, it wasn’t our fault.

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The Three-Parent Family

44 weeks Ago

A new bill allows children to have more than two legally recognized parents. Cue: Conservative freakout.

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A Lesson From Crazy Horse

46 weeks Ago

The ideologues of rapacious capitalism, like members of a primitive cult, chant the false mantra that natural resources and expansion are infinite. They dismiss calls for equitable distribution as unnecessary. They say that all will soon share in the "expanding" wealth, which in fact is swiftly diminishing.

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Don’t Trust The Godless

46 weeks Ago

Even as an atheist, I have more confidence in religious people. And now science is backing me up.

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Anti-Contraception Activists Claim Their Suits Are Last Resort To Undermine Health Care

46 weeks Ago

Almost immediately after the Supreme Court's decision upholding the Affordable Care Act as constitutional, anti-abortion and anti-contraception activists began sending out press releases claiming they would continue to fight the law on the grounds that the Act funds abortion care (which is false), and through their lawsuits against the contraception mandate.

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Science Or Sex: Which Does The Right Hate More?

46 weeks Ago

Parents and right-wingers revolt when a teacher dares answer fifth-graders' questions with honesty and respect.

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Are Americans Dumb?

47 weeks Ago

Retiring congressman Gary Ackerman thinks so -- is he right?

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An Atheist For President? It’s Only A Matter Of Time

47 weeks Ago

There isn’t an atheist running for President this year, but in case one is waiting in the wings, the latest Gallup Poll holds some good news. For the first time since the Gallup organization began asking the question, a majority of Americans—54 percent—would vote for an atheist. (I’m not going to hold my breath on this one. –B)

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System Failure: We Are Approaching The End Of Society As We Know It -- And That May Be A Good Thing

47 weeks Ago

Paul Gilding talks about his new book, "The Great Disruption: Why the Climate Crisis Will Bring on the End of Shopping and the Birth of a New World."

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Fire All The Teachers! (And Other Inanities)

47 weeks Ago

Two of the most damaging misconceptions people have about labor unions are (1) that union members tend to be substandard workers (lazy, unreliable, surly, privileged), and (2) that union members can’t be fired because their “masters” will always go to bat to protect them.

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The Truth About Religion in America: The Founders Loathed Superstition and We Were Never a Christian Nation

48 weeks Ago

The claim that America was founded as a Christian nation -- a favorite of Right-wing Christians -- is just not true.

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46% Of Americans Cling To Creationism

48 weeks Ago

A Gallup poll last month revealed that almost half of Americans are anti-empiricists—that is, they trust ancient descriptions of the world they live in over scientific explanations developed through a direct experience of it.

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Library Security Guard Tells Woman To Leave For Breastfeeding

48 weeks Ago

A Minneapolis mom is speaking out after a security guard told her to leave the library because she was breastfeeding in public.

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10 Reasons Not To Get Married

49 weeks Ago

People are delaying marriage (or not getting married at all) far more than they used to -- and it's for a reason.

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But I’m A Good Mormon Wife

50 weeks Ago

Sean and I had the perfect life. Then his faith started to crumble -- and mine did, too.

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Exit The Political Wife

50 weeks Ago

Is the adoring political spouse – so much a part of the political landscape that she has her own iconography, from knit suits to the dreamy upward gaze at her man – receding into the past?

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Dodgy Boffins

50 weeks Ago

What's wrong with science journalism in the U.K.?

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Victory, Unprecedented

51 weeks Ago

How the gay movement's successes surpassed feminism and civil rights -- and became a model for a new era.

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9 Great Freethinkers And Religious Dissenters In History

51 weeks Ago

Here are some non-believers who left a profound mark.

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